THIS sounds like fun…

From SirVictor of DomSubFriends post today on FetLife:
“DSF Presents: “The Harder-The Better” BDSM party This Friday, July 24th at Paddles Time: 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM *Address: #250 West 26th Street, NYC, NY (Bet: 7th/8th Ave)
“Please follow the suggested dress code: Fetish or black.
“Party Theme: “The harder-The better.” Do you enjoy playing hard, or watch someone else pay hard? We mean play really really hard?? We rarely see BDSM’ers play extremely hard in public these days. Well, this won’t be a problem on this evening. If you are a sadist or masochist, or a voyeur; this is your night. Extreme bondage, Extreme caning, Extreme flogging, Extreme spanking, and whatever else you might think of.”

I don’t think I’ve seen this theme at a party recently. It sounds like my cuppa tea. I like to play hard and I also love watching the intensity when other couples play hard, too. Especially the look on the bottom’s face. Sometimes it’s bliss; sometimes it’s sheer agony.

I’m already planning on meeting J. there and beating him silly playing with him, so I might as well catch some of the other activities as well.

As always, if you’re out, come say hi.


  1. it was fun, but I was busy providing my OWN hard play to J. Saw some girls getting tied up on stage but didn’t see too much other hard play. Can’t say there wasn’t any for sure — we were kind of preoccupied in our own little area.

    Must say thanks to Viktor and DomSubFriends ( for providing some very healthy options for the snack table. Tons of grapes, cut-up watermelon, individual containers of Greek yogurt — yes, there were some cookies, too, but they were back and out of the way.

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