I woke up with shoulder pain — on my right shoulder only. Hm. I might have to stop doing so many long OTK spankings and start wielding the cane a little more often. Well, I’ll take an ibuprofen now, do a workout later and it should be fine. I am getting old, but I’m nowhere near out of action.
Last night at PaddlesNYC was fun. We had a good crowd of tops and bottoms, a new schoolgirl made an appearance (very cute; I held back at asking her if she needed a spanking — she may have been with someone).
I spanked three naughty boys and one naughty “girl.” (My friend B. who likes to dress in frilly little girl’s clothes or French maid’s outfit). Again, each had different styles, tolerance levels and likes and dislikes as far as toys. You certainly can’t do the same thing with everyone and expect them all to walk away satisfied. (However, with some who say they don’t want a certain implement, or say they can’t take it on the bare bottom, you might have to push a little if you KNOW they can take a little more; especially if they’ve expressed to you earlier that they NEED it hard.) Part of the game is listening and watching, while maintaining control.
I DID take my birthday spanking from my husband, and later at a private party two others spanked me (you can read more about my bottom side at www.sandysroom.wordpress.com).