Yes, it’s been a while since I’ve posted. I’m not depressed or hiding (thanks to those who asked, I appreciate it), just very busy at my day job and with life in general. I got a promotion recently and I do have to shift focus somewhat while I adjust.
Also, my husband and I were on vacation and had other things on our mind during that period.
But I am here! I’ll be playing this week at the Strictly Spanking New York party on Saturday evening. My friend JP, the one who appears in the video that Richard Windsor made of us, will be flying in from Texas, so that’ll be fun. He needs another caning, of course! (I haven’t asked him if he needs another caning — I just have a good feeling about this).
I have to be honest and say I’ve probably done a little more bottoming than topping lately. For those who like this sort of thing, I do bottoming sessions as well as topping. It’s just sometimes where my head goes, especially when I am focused and under pressure at work. If I have to make a lot of decisions there, I don’t always want to be in charge in my personal life. It doesn’t mean that I don’t want to top, in fact, at OTK night at Paddles two weeks ago I topped quite a bit. It’s just that they were more of “giving” sort of scenes than “i need to thrash someone” scenes.