Payback doesn’t have to be a bitch

If you’re going to TES Fest over the July 4th weekend, and you’re a bottom or switch, please consider attending my class about “topping for bottoms.” I’m also seeking input prior to the weekend from bottoms or switches (well, tops with opinions, too) about what topics you might like to see included.

My intention is to show newbies the joys of topping and help them get over the initial nervousness. It’s about how to be tough or in charge when you don’t necessarily feel tough, getting to know your bottom and read his/her reactions, learning how to use toys, and more.

The class is on Monday, July 4, at noon.
Here’s the class description:

Payback doesn’t have to be a bitch: Topping for bottoms

People keep asking you to top them at parties – but you’re a bottom! Number one rule: don’t switch if you don’t want to; it’s not for everyone. But if you have the urge to give back some of the tough love, this class will help. I will discuss ways of tapping into your inner sadist, reading your bottom’s reactions, being an unapologetic “service top” and learning to be choosy about partners. I will also discuss pre-scene negotiation, aftercare, and other aspects of topping.
I look forward to others’ feedback.



  1. Andy

    Sounds very good – I’d love to attend.

    Unfortunately I’m on the wrong continent :-(

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