Ms. Cassandra Park

The Corporal Consultant

Amateur amateur

Cassandra Park | July 29, 2009

My friend G. and I were just fooling around at a party and someone handed me a paddle. It’s dark and the chatter in the room makes it very hard to hear, but you can ALMOST see me spanking him. Right near the end I finally get a little moan out of him. ANOTHER tough [...]

Well, he ASKED for it…

Cassandra Park | July 26, 2009

It was a lot of fun getting J. for a play date on Friday night, vs. the quick scenes we’ve had up till now at parties. We met at La Nacional Tapas Bar on 14th St. beforehand (very good food, and not crowded — I’d go back), split four different tapas and spent some [...]

Results on implement poll

Cassandra Park | July 22, 2009

Results on implement poll

Thanks, everyone, for voting in the last poll (“If you got to pick your punishment implement, which would you choose?”). Thirty people voted – Yay!
The winner was the strap (cool – my favorite, too), with eight votes, but the hairbrush was a close second with seven votes. Next were the wooden paddle and cane [...]

THIS sounds like fun…

Cassandra Park | July 21, 2009

From SirVictor of DomSubFriends post today on FetLife:
“DSF Presents: “The Harder-The Better” BDSM party This Friday, July 24th at Paddles Time: 9:00 PM – 3:00 AM *Address: #250 West 26th Street, NYC, NY (Bet: 7th/8th Ave)
“Please follow the suggested dress code: Fetish or black.
“Party Theme: “The harder-The better.” Do you enjoy playing hard, or watch [...]

Video upload — help?

Cassandra Park | July 21, 2009

Looking for computer help in order to upload a little home video a friend shot of me paddling friend G. at a recent party… my website is not accepting it. It’s only a quick video, maybe 30 seconds long — wonder what needs to be done. Maybe I need to use Flickr?
Raining here in [...]

It’s not ALL about spanking…

Cassandra Park | July 17, 2009

You don’t to be into spanking necessarily to crave that focus, that attention, from the top. There is a need (sometimes it’s more like a longing) to “be done to,” whatever the “doing” involves.
A guy I’d seen before but never played with, I’ll call him Sub T., offered to rub my feet at Paddles [...]

Nasty nurturer

Cassandra Park | July 16, 2009

When I top I feel a combination of nurturing mother and nasty, mean mom. Or, concerned educator/strict, unbending disciplinarian. I want to hurt him because he needs to be hurt, he needs the pain, he needs the release. I want to nurture him because he needs that, too, and I want to give it.
The two [...]