Ms. Cassandra Park

The Corporal Consultant

Power exchange

Cassandra Park | August 31, 2009

Last week’s poll asked: “For bottoms, what’s your biggest turn-on?” Most popular response was “Giving up control” (42%). Following that was “humiliation” (21%), “pain” (17%), “age play” (9%) and “fear” (8 %).
I was sort of surprised that fear was so far down on the list, since this is one of my top turn-ons when [...]

INTERESTING night at Paddles

Cassandra Park | August 30, 2009

Got to play with lots of bad boys, several of whom offered me foot massages, only one of whom actually had an inkling about HOW to give a foot massage. And he’s the nasty boy who likes me to slap his face with my bare feet. There’s something really down and dirty about that that [...]

Couple of “housekeeping” notes

Cassandra Park | August 27, 2009

I’m on deadline week in my day job, so I apologize to anyone I owe emails or phone calls to. Your call will be answered in the order it was received … LOL… seriously, though, I’m a little off-balance this week.
On that note, please read the info on the “Contact” page. I am not [...]

We’re all sluts!

Cassandra Park | August 22, 2009

Results of the last poll — 36% said at a party or public event, their main goal would be to get spanked by or to spank as many people as possible. Coming in second at 24% was “a real session, as close to a private session as possible.” Well, it’s true, especially if you don’t [...]

My inner sadist …

Cassandra Park | August 16, 2009

When I started my topping journey it was with difficulty. I did it as a favor for a few friends, or guys who looked lonely, at parties or at Paddles NYC. It never felt quite right, and I always felt they would see right through my “phoniness.” With one friend, a male switch who was [...]

Staying in NY after all

Cassandra Park | August 15, 2009

Well, I thought I was going to Philadelphia this weekend and tried to arrange for some play while I was down there. My husband Rad is shooting some videos today with Punished Brats, and I originally was going to travel with him. Finding places to play in Philadelphia is harder than it is in [...]

MIGHT play tonight

Cassandra Park | August 15, 2009

I’m not entirely sure I’m in the mood, but I’m thinking about stopping by Paddles later. I’m hanging out with some friends earlier in the evening, quite a bit uptown, but then I have to go down to Chelsea, and I’ll be close to the club. I wouldn’t mind binding someone to the whipping post [...]