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Fun OTK night at Paddles NYC

Tuesday, June 5th, 2012

I had a pretty decent weekend. Saturday was the monthly OTK night at Paddles NYC. Rad and I went to the Moonstruck diner for the pre-party munch, hosted by our friend Bobbi.

We were the first to arrive after Bobbi, but gradually the table filled up. One rather boisterous gentleman arrived and boomingly asked, “Is this the OTK munch?” He then continued to talk loudly about spanking, before most of us at the table shushed him. We were in the back of the diner, away from most couples and children. But there was a table next to ours where three gentleman were sitting and eating, and none of us wanted our kink shared that openly. Our new friend got the hint and lowered his voice.

I’d exercised earlier that day and had not eaten too much, so I permitted myself the indulgence of a burger topped with blue cheese. No fries, so didn’t feel too guilty.

At the club I changed into my school girl uniform, which has the blazer, blouse and tie you see below, plus a pleated plaid skirt, black knee socks and preppy black loafers.

Rad had me present myself for inspection, and he found some parts of my appearance lacking. He said I should have shined my shoes, that my skirt was not freshly ironed and that my collar wasn’t laying flat. “Demerits!” he declared, and then put me over his knee. “But … demerits don’t mean spankings!” I protested.

“Be quiet, young lady!” He gave me a brisk spanking, painful enough for me to try to get out of it after he pulled my panties down. But he kept me in place and I held onto his ankle to stay in place until he was done.

After that I spanked three guys, all well-deserving. One of them asked me for a serious paddling (with wood), which I was thrilled to deliver. I think I was going at it for at least 20 minutes!

There’s been a dissatisfying lack of dominant male tops at the OTK nights recently. I don’t mean to disparage anyone, but a lot of the tops I’ve seen recently are more into sensual play, as far as I can tell.

So I sidled up to the soda bar to socialize with an old friend, Teseror. I hadn’t played with him in several years; we used to play quite a bit, way back before I even met Rad, but he’d dropped out of the scene for a while. He’s a switch, but on Saturday he was in a toppy mood. As soon as I started lamenting about “where are all the good tops,” he got this glint in his eye. I started to think, “Hm. Maybe…”

Before I knew it he had pulled this length of rope out of his bag. It was only around 9 p.m. or so, I think, and the “OTK only” period was from 7-10 pm. “Oh, you ARE going to be a bad boy tonight,” I said, smiling. He said he wanted to test my weight, so he asked me to fall backward into his arms. I let go and let myself fall; he was there to catch me.

Then Teseror began to tie me up, right next to the soda bar. I figured if anyone really cared about our violation of the ”spirit of OTK night,” they would tell us to stop. No one did.

He tied me up rather tightly, over my school uniform. He created a “handle” in the rope at my back. This is why he had tested my weight–he periodically used it to lower me to the floor, either face down or backwards. My feet stayed in one spot while he dipped me over. This took a certain amount of trust. My hands were not tied, but he’d ordered me to keep them behind my back or at my sides, so I had no protection for my face if he lost his grip. I like to live dangerously. He’s fairly solid and looked strong enough to hold me up.

I loved the rush! After a while he just put me up against a wall and spanked me. It was a lot of fun, a different type of scene, for sure.

Later Rad got me again for one final scene before we headed home. He got the thick London Tanner’s strap out, bent me over the bench up in the loft and gave it to me good. He, too, got all domly on me, pushing me back down onto the bench several times when I started to struggle. It really hurt! (Which was good … after it was over!)

 

 

 

The F. C. T.* strikes again!

Wednesday, May 23rd, 2012

There isn’t much to say. Got a good whuppin’ over the weekend, with the F.C.T. along with several other toys (Hate bath brushes. Hate them, hate them, hate them! … yes, I know, I keep returning.) The F.C.T.? I am terrified of it, yet I oddly love that I’m terrified of it and he still uses it on me.

The picture below attests to my stoned-out bliss when we were done. Not to mention sheer exhaustion. Bottoming to SincereM is a lot of work!


*Fucking Cat Toy. See the explanation on my old blog.

A brief history of corporal punishment

Tuesday, May 22nd, 2012

(As interpreted by ME)

For those who couldn’t make the Long Island Leather N Roses spank-a-thon and meeting, here’s the text from my presentation:

A history of corporal punishment
As interpreted by Cassandra Park

People the world over have enjoyed hitting their fellow citizens, for a variety of reasons, for millennia–probably even for several centuries! It is a time-honored tradition that has resulted in the betterment and enlightenment of such folks and a marked decline in bad language, cutting classes and chewing gum … not to mention murder, mayhem and tagging subway cars.

My intensive research spanning several Wikipedia pages has determined that there are several categories in which people who may find themselves getting smacked, whacked or cracked by other people with the full legal backing of their states or countries.

Domestic discipline
First, there is domestic discipline, a matter of intense debate within the United States and world: Should we spank our ankle biters or not? Does it harm them or help them? More importantly, does it help YOU? Whatever your opinion, it is still legal in every U.S. state to spank your kids. The kids MAY call child protective services, claiming you left them chained overnight in the doghouse. So proceed with caution.

In the U.S. parents are free to spank, paddle, strap, switch or otherwise torture their kids. The kids then grow up to become fine upstanding citizens, spending their weekends at fetish parties or their lunch hours visiting their dominatrices, contributing millions to the economy.

There are various degrees of limitations on corporal punishment for kids around the world. In the UK, it’s permissible as long as you do not leave a mark, and in Scotland you can spank your kids, but can only use one hand and must be playing the bagpipes with the other.

“Rule of thumb”? Contrary to popular belief, there was never a law that said a man could strike his wife as long as the stick wasn’t wider than his thumb. It WAS and IS permissible, however, to beat your partner with an idiot stick if he or she is acting really, really stupid.

Judicial corporal punishment
Judicial corporal punishment, the infliction of corporal punishment as a result of a sentence by a court of law, included flogging, caning, birching, whipping or strapping, and was once commonplace in many countries. It has now been abolished in most Western countries, but remains an acceptable legal punishment in some Asian, African and Middle Eastern countries, mostly either former British colonies (now members of the Commonwealth) such as Malaysia, Singapore and Tanzania, Muslim countries with a system of Islamic (Sharia) law; and Arizona, for anyone who is not a straight white male.

Here in the United States, we are lucky to have something called the Eighth Amendment to the Constitution, which prohibits the government from imposing cruel and unusual punishments. Therefore, prisoners in jail cannot be whipped or given other corporal punishments. Nor can children in reform school. However, if you are a student in public or private school, watch out.

School punishment
Corporal punishment in school used to happen all over the world, but in recent decades it has been outlawed in most of Europe and in Canada, Japan, South Africa, New Zealand and several other countries. It remains commonplace in a number of countries in Africa, Southeast Asia and the Middle East, as well as the U.S. and Arizona.

Much of the traditional culture that surrounds corporal punishment in school derives largely from British practice in the 19th and 20th centuries, particularly the caning of teenage boys. Caning was abolished in 1967 in Denmark but Germany waited until 1983. Britain itself outlawed the practice in 1987 for state schools and more recently for all schools. But many schools in Singapore and Malaysia, and also some African countries, use caning as a routine official punishment for misconduct. In some Middle Eastern countries whipping is used. In South Korea, male and female secondary students alike are commonly spanked in school.

In 1867 New Jersey became the first U.S. state to abolish corporal punishment in schools. This was mostly a reaction to the number of students packing guns and knives: It was simply an offer they couldn’t refuse.

In the U.S., 31 states and the District of Columbia have now banned corporal punishment from use in state schools.

Three-fourths of all U.S. school corporal punishment takes place in Texas, Arkansas, Mississippi, Tennessee and Alabama. It is almost always applied with a wooden paddle to the student’s clothed bottom, and typically consists of two or three strokes, often called “swats,” “licks” or occasionally “pops.”

New Mexico was the most recent to outlaw corporal punishment in schools, in 2011. This fact was stricken from the history books in Arizona, and Texas declared that the New Mexico state flower is now the pansy.

Traditional tools of domestic and/or school discipline, based on the country, region or state:

UK: The cane or the slipper (plimsole)
Scotland: The tawse
France: The martinet
Southern U.S.: Switch or paddle
Northern U.S.: Strap or belt
Florida: Grapefruit in a sack
Middle America: Wooden spoon, carpet beater
Middle Earth: Wearing the ring for one hour
WyomingArizona: The coal shovel*
New Jersey: Bag of change from the casino
Maine: Lobster roll
Antarctica: Ice cubes down the pants

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*see comments. McClintock! experts have informed me that the coal shovel was used in Arizona, not Wyoming.  

As you wish …

Monday, June 27th, 2011

“I could use a good beating. Especially the way you administer it.”

It’s always nice to get a compliment like that, to feel wanted.

And I’m pretty sure I’m going to have the boy who sent me that note over my knee sometime this weekend. He knows he’s earned it, too, so I don’t plan on being nice. 

No, he won’t be over my knee for long. Are you paying attention, bad boy?

I AM packing my canes for TES Fest.


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