Ms. Cassandra Park

Posted By Cassandra Park on March 4, 2010

Hope you guys have been behaving. I haven’t been. I’ve been isolating a bit, overbooking myself (some of which was unavoidable work stuff, and some of which was BS), and procrastinating. My writing chops seem non-existent at the moment; I’m working my way through READING a stack of 10 books and I hope at the end of this saturation of writing styles that something will appear in my mind and flow back out onto the written page. But I have to write something, even if it is just news: The biggest news of the day:

Worked with Punished Brats on February 13; you can now see my previews here. Punished Brats/Pixie’s Previews. I also got a CD in the mail today of the entire day’s shoot, which consisted of myself, Punished Brats co-owner David Pierson, head brat Pixie (also co-owner of Punished Brats) and adorable guest brats Ten and Carissa.

I was cringing at first, watching myself. I kept saying, “I needed to enunciate there!” But overall, I thought the clips looked good. The women were all terrific and looked fabulous.

Don’t forget I also have clips for sale with Ms. Holly ofSoutheastern Woodshed

Will someone please help me make some F/m videos? Several have asked about me doing this and I haven’t figure out where or how or with whom. I’ll get around to doing it myself one of these days, but at the moment, I’m not set up for that. I want to do it for content on my website here, but if anyone wants to go in on this and split the profits, I’m open to suggestions.

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Posted By Cassandra Park on February 14, 2010

I did six short videos with Punished Brats in Philadelphia yesterday, an interesting experience, to say the least. I am very, very sore — yes, I know it’s hard to take a spanking, but dishing out six spankings within a very short amount of time is work, too! I loved the girls, they were all very good at what they did, and adorable. I hope to write more details about this soon, but just want to say I am very grateful to David and Pixie for allowing me this opportunity.

Don’t worry, boys, I still love spanking you, and I’m working real hard to find ways to make movies of myself spanking some very bad boys. I have one friend who CAN appear on camera who has expressed interest. Anyone who’s interested in taking part — this won’t be happening right away because I don’t have the equipment or a place to do it, but we are moving forward and have some ideas. I’ll likely do film a few short films and sell them through Clips4Sale since I can keep them reasonably priced that way. I’m not looking to make a lot of money, but want to get some hot, exciting material out there and cover my costs. Let me know if you can be filmed, the degree of severity you can take (what implements you’re willing to take), etc.

Now, to the matter of the day. I did not stay down in Philly last night as originally planned because one of my two cats is very very sick. After I got back to NY last night and we had dinner, my husband (who had been observing him all day) and I finally decided to take him to the animal hospital. He is there now and it does not look good. We’ll have to cancel some trips as a result; I had been hoping to go to either Chicago or Boston in March.

UPDATE: As those of you who follow me on Twitter or read my other blog already know, we had to let my cat Rocky slip away this afternoon around 3 p.m. He was rapidly deteriorating (kidneys) and there was not much left to do. I will miss him terribly; I’ve had him for 16 years.

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Posted By Cassandra Park on February 12, 2010

I’m exhausted after a long week of work, and I’ve got to get up early tomorrow. But here’s the preview of the movie I made, to give you an idea of what to expect in the future. I hope you enjoy it!

Have a good weekend a happy Valentine’s Day

Ms. C.

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Posted By Cassandra Park on February 9, 2010

Don’t quite understand why the post I wrote a day or two ago (about my Southeastern Woodshed shoot), ended up BELOW the two older posts I wrote. It was supposed to be on the top!

Anyhow, I’ll figure that out later (or not). I’m trying to relax and regroup this week before my next project, this coming Saturday’s shoot with Punished Brats. Pixie is calling on me to top in several different scenarios. It should be lots of fun, but i can imagine it will be hard work, as well. This’ll be my real test; can I maintain my authority throughout?

As mentioned in the news notes on the right, I am hoping to dish out some private discipline in Philly this weekend as well. If you’re in need, please let me know and reserve a spot as soon as you can.

I may also make an appearance at The Spankuary, a new club opening this Friday in Philadelphia. See the RSVP and event info on Fetlife.

I’ll stay in Philadelphia till Sunday night if there’s interest; otherwise, I’m driving back to NY and going to Impact on Sunday night. Maybe I’ll see some of you there.

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Posted By Cassandra Park on February 1, 2010

Here are links to some upcoming events I’m either definitely attending or THINKING of attending. Consider joining in the fun. If we haven’t met, introduce yourself!

Friday: Predicament Bondage demo at Paddles:

Saturday: OTK munch and party (RSVP, please!)

Feb. 14: Impact: Looking for intelligent, attractive submissive to accompany me

Feb. 18: Friends Tasha and Yoni’s production of “The Flaming of the Shrew” at CineKink

Feb. 21: Hollywood Spanking Group party (Not going this time; wish I were!)

March 5: Le Trample Foot Fetish party, NYC. I’m seeking an intelligent, attractive sub — who knows how to give a proper foot rub — to accompany me.

If you’re interested in attending any of the events above where I’m seeking a partner, please write me at mscassandrapark@gmail.com. Send a pic. We could have a lot of fun!! (Oh, yes — it helps if you can take a decent amount of pain & punishment)

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Posted By Cassandra Park on January 31, 2010

I had a largely domestic day with hubby, did little else beyond sit around and read, surf the internet, and finally go food shopping. Now I’m baking bread. I am cheating by using frozen dough, but I’ve added my own ingredients, including sun-dried tomatoes, onions and cheese. It’ll either be incredibly yummy or a large lump of hard dough we’ll have to force down our gullets. Please pray it’s the former. After dinner, I’m taking a long bath and then retiring early.

Speaking of domestic, I wanted to say that it continues to be a favorite of mine to play with a man who’s reenacting something from his youth — a fantasy about a neighbor that he once had a crush on, or the mom that he never had. A lot of the men who express this want (and need) the severe punishment that these idealized women dole out in their fantasies. Usually the inspiration for the fantasy, the actual woman, never spanked them. Sometimes they tell me they witnessed or overheard their childhood friend getting spanked, or saw their sister get it, or were themselves threatened without a follow-through. And it seems to stay with them their whole lives; thinking about it turns them on.

I’ve had requests to wear various outfits to match some of these dream ladies. One recent client of mine, M., asked that I wear a white men’s button-down shirt, my own panties, and nothing else. (Talk about comfortable!) Another gentleman requested I wear a bathing suit, specifically a one-piece. I didn’t own a one-piece at the time so as I went shopping I kept in mind that his fantasy neighbor was probably someone he knew circa 1960s or 1970s — maybe even earlier. I found a one-piece that seemed very conservative (AKA boring), but was perfect for the fantasy look we were going for.

One theme that runs through all of these scenes is that the women is strict but nice. She delivers a very hard punishment, then she forgives the “boy,” then she holds him. She makes him feel brave for taking his punishment and makes sure he knows that she still cares for him.

I haven’t quite figured out these two roles and how they go together. I do know that I like to do both — I like to be very firm and strict with the boys. Not that many will cry, but I don’t mind when they do. I like to dish out the pain — I know how much they need it, and I simply ENJOY it, watching their reactions. And, just as much, I like the aftercare. I don’t know, it doesn’t make any sense, but I feel close to someone after I punish him. I want to nurture him at that point.

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Posted By Cassandra Park on January 29, 2010

This WordPress theme seemed a little simpler, as far as using widgets and adding items to the sidebars. So I’m going to try it out for a little while. In the meantime, hope everyone had a good weekend. I went to Paddles NYC monthly OTK night, and lots of people were getting spanked. I spanked and got spanked…

Here’s a new photo from scene I did recently with an old friend from Texas. He was visiting New York, and there was no way we would be seeing each other without playing. He and I are both switches, and he can take it fairly hard when he bottoms, but I did start out slow, with my hand, because I didn’t know what his exactly know his tolerance from the other side. I eventually moved up to a doubled over leather belt.

Exhausted. Will try to finish these thoughts tomorrow.

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